How to Trust Again.

Counsellor said this today about how to Trust in a relationship:
Forgiveness is the first step.
Don't look back on yesterday. Look only upon today and deal with the present. Let your Higher Power take care of Tomorrow, for it will come. Take care of the here and now.

In order to get to Forgiveness in order to fully Trust, one needs to look Foward and stop looking back to the past for any answers or explanations to present behaviors. The answers to questions and issues will come and be revealed in its own perfect time.
How does one come into Forgiveness of others? Think on how everyday, God Forgives us without questions when we stand before Him in sin. That is how we must Forgive others. He does not punish us for our sins, nor does He push us away. He embraces us with his Love.

Ask what you can do today to make the situation/relationship safe, harmonious, peaceful, loving, and joyful...and then Do it.

Let go of the Past's hurt, pain, shame, disappointments.
That way you can...
Start the slate clean in the present every-single-day from now on.

Let go of the Past's hurt, pain, shame, disapointments.
That way you won't...
keep the other person hostage to the last relationship's issues or the past hurts.

Complete honesty and openness and full communication with each other is the key.

If you are religious or spiritual, Find and Give Forgiveness as through the Eyes of the Lord. Pray that you trust in His perfect timing that the Truth will always be revealed to you soon. If you believe in God and endeavor to live a Godly life, think on how God would respond.

Open all lines of communication so there will be no room for secret activity that is so common to the downfall of most relationships today.

Acknowledge your Lord in all ways, first and foremost above all else, and the Lord will never lead you wrong. Keep Looking Foward always and ask what can you do for God and God's people.

Above all, Trust God First.